Our vision is that every family we serve will cherish their child’s life, and experience hope & joy in the midst of sorrow.

Where it All Began

In 2015, Daniel & Kelly Crawford found out they were pregnant with their first child – a son they named Abel Paul Crawford. They soon found out that Abel had Trisomy 18, a diagnosis that was deemed “incompatible with life.”

There are no words to describe the moment where you learn that your child’s life may be far shorter than you’d ever hoped or imagined. It feels impossible to know where to turn, and even take another step.

While their first doctor encouraged them to “terminate and try again,” they were committed to cherishing the time they had with their son – however brief.

Abel was born on January 22, 2016 and lived for 15 beautiful days.

Our vision is that every family we serve will cherish their child’s life, and experience hope & joy in the midst of sorrow.

WHERE IT ALL BEGAN

In 2015, Daniel & Kelly Crawford found out they were pregnant with their first child – a son they named Abel Paul Crawford. They soon found out that Abel had Trisomy 18, a diagnosis that was deemed “incompatible with life.”

There are no words to describe the moment where you learn that your child’s life may be far shorter than you’d ever hoped or imagined. It feels impossible to know where to turn, and even take another step.

While their first doctor encouraged them to “terminate and try again,” they were committed to cherishing the time they had with their son – however brief.

Abel was born on January 22, 2016 and lived for 15 beautiful days.

In the months that followed, the Crawfords were asked over and over to share their experience and encourage other couples who had also chosen to carry a child with a life-limiting diagnosis. It became clear that this kind of personalized support was an essential need they could fill.

So on Abel’s second birthday, Abel Speaks was officially founded as a 501c3 nonprofit organization.

Since then, the ministry has grown beyond anyone’s initial expectations! The story of Abel Speaks continues to be written, and we continue to walk in faithfulness where God leads.

In the months that followed, the Crawfords were asked over and over to share their experience and encourage other couples who had also chosen to carry a child with a life-limiting diagnosis. It became clear that this kind of personalized support was an essential need they could fill.

So on Abel’s second birthday, Abel Speaks was officially founded as a 501c3 nonprofit organization.

Since then, the ministry has grown beyond anyone’s initial expectations! The story of Abel Speaks continues to be written, and we continue to walk in faithfulness where God leads.

Who We Serve

Our Abel Speaks families come to us from all over the country (and even internationally) after choosing to carry a child with a life-limiting diagnosis. This means that the baby has been diagnosed in utero with an abnormality known to reduce the duration of their life.

Most of the families we serve will lose their baby at some point in pregnancy (resulting in a stillbirth) or will have minutes, hours, or a few days with baby after birth.

Who We Serve

Our Abel Speaks families come to us from all over the country (and even internationally) after choosing to carry a child with a life-limiting diagnosis. This means that the baby has been diagnosed in utero with an abnormality known to reduce the duration of their life.

Most of the families we serve will lose their baby at some point in pregnancy (resulting in a stillbirth) or will have minutes, hours, or a few days with baby after birth.

Our Core Convictions

1.

Every life is created by God with a plan and a purpose.

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God knows our days and each one is a gift.

2.

Comfort can always be found in Christ and community.

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Through Christ, we can live with a redemptive eternal perspective and death is not the end of the story.

3.

Our pain is never pointless, and joy can co-exist with suffering.

Our Core Convictions

1.

Every life is created by God with a plan and a purpose.

2.

Comfort can always be found in Christ and community.

3.

Our pain is never pointless, and joy can co-exist with suffering.

4.

God knows our days and each one is a gift.

5.

Through Christ, we can live with a redemptive eternal perspective and death is not the end of the story.

Frequently Asked Questions

What pregnancy complications do you work with?
Some of the most common diagnoses we serve are: Trisomy 18, Trisomy 13, Limb Body Wall Complex, Bilateral Renal Agenesis, HLHS & HRHS, and Anencephaly. The common implication is that, if true, these diagnoses will likely limit the time a parent will get to enjoy with their child. This was what our founders experienced with their firstborn son, Abel Paul. However, their story and this mission show that parents can choose to cherish their child’s life and experience joy and hope even in the midst of sorrow — and they don’t have to do it alone. For more information about specific diagnoses, refer to our Medical Glossary.
How early should we reach out after receiving our diagnoses?

We can serve your family at any point in the pregnancy, but we would encourage you to reach out as early as possible. Practically speaking, a longer runway from diagnosis to delivery provides more time to prepare medically, relationally, and emotionally. Our organization is rooted in relationships, so the more time we have to connect and walk with you on the front end of delivery, the better.

What kind of support do you provide these families?

We have seen that support truly can (and does) change stories. Our approach is rooted in relationships, so first and foremost, our families are offered a mentor couple who has walked this same road. To see the other tangible services we offer, you can visit our Services page.

Are there costs associated with your services?

No. The mission of Abel Speaks is made possible by generous donors so that all support services are provided free of charge.

Is your support just for moms?

We intentionally emphasize support for moms and dads. Many of our podcast episodes speak directly to the nuances of grieving for men, and we actively foster a community of dads who seek to support one another.

Someone I love just lost a baby. How do I get them in touch with you?

The majority of families we serve find us through the referral of a friend or family member, so thank you! You can direct them to our website, particularly to the contact page where they can share a bit about their story and schedule an initial call with our Family Care Team. 

Click here to see the practical ways we serve families.